“A wife is not a dog”, should seem like a no brainer, right? Well, it’s not. Men often treat their wives as if they are married to a dog. And, depending on how they view their dog is reflected in how they treat their wives.

For example: this husband treated his wife like he did his […]

Often during a relationship, we lose ourselves. We settle down, get comfortable, become lazy, and stop caring about ourselves. We stop being the person that our partner fell in love with. So, guess what happens? You guessed it. Our partners fall out of love with us. Okay, so how do you save the relation […]

Divorce is the end of one path and the beginning of a new path. You are simply at an interception of your life. So, which way do you go?

First, you must decide what you want or where you want to go. Second, once you know what you want, you set some goals for reaching your […]

No matter if you want the divorce or not, a divorce can be depressing.  While the world is constantly changing, we humans constantly resist change.  It is easier to maintain the status quo than to uproot and change our direction.  Change requires doing things in a new and unfamiliar way.

So why do we resist? […]

When you are with someone and you are asking yourself, “Is this the one?”, you should make a personality profile list. Now, you ask, “What is a personality profile list?” Well, it is a list in which you write down the positive and negative traits of the person you are with. It is a type […]

To “Lock her up” can mean many things to many people, but where there is an abusive relationship, it has two different meanings.

First, Abusers want to “lock up” their partners to avoid the truth being exposed to the public.  Abusers lie to their friends, family, co-works, and even their priest about their relationships.  The Abuser […]

You keep asking yourself, “Why is my abuser lying about me?” You cannot for figure out why. You just keep shaking your heads trying to figure out why they are attacking you and your reputation.

The truth is that abusers lie to destroy and annihilate you and your reputation. The Abuser cannot stand you and […]

Abusers typically engage in diverse types of negative behavior that ranges from verbal to physical. Most Abusers are prone to lying, cheating, breaking laws, ignoring social norms, stealing, trespassing, stalking, abusing drugs and alcohol, destroying others property, and recklessness, as well as, not paying their child support or continually trying to get out of […]

The stress, excitement, and expense of a holiday can create the potential environment for domestic violence to occur in a home. But, on a holiday, that adds alcohol and explodes to the mix, the possibility for domestic violence increases significantly.

Abusers love explosive fireworks both in their relationships and their entertainment. Abusers typically have a fiery […]

Know that you are valuable. You are a child of the Most High God, making you very valuable. An Abuser with the spirit of Satan cannot stand you being and presenting yourself as worthy of greatness, so the Abuser will seek to knock you down. The Abuser wants you to believe that you are worthless […]

The Lord gave me a word to share. Satan is the master of deception and lies. Satan is an Abuser. Abusers have the spirit of Satan. Abusers want to control and manipulate their target. Example: Abuser/controller thinks of you as their property, thus, they get to manipulate your behavior. The Abuser sees you making friends […]

NO!! You are not crazy. When ever you are with an abuser, the abuser wants you, your family, and friends to think you are crazy, so you will have no one and be isolated. It is a tactical move. The crazy one is the abuser…that you need to leave. But, beware, the abuser sees you […]

Narcissists typically tell you that divorce attorneys are not needed. They’ll say attorneys are worthless, expensive, and sharks. Then they will butter you up and try to get you to agree to a settlement that they have crafted. They (or their secret attorney) will draft up an agreement that they will expect you to sign. […]

Prince charming (narcissist) will come swooping in to save you from your financial trouble when you first start dating. He will help you get out of trouble and tell you how much he cares for you. He might even propose to you right off the bat. But BEWARE… this is a ploy to gain your […]